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Ending Gun Violence In 2016

Ending Gun Violence In 2016


The gun violence continues in the United States.  


When tragedy strikes in a big way, with multiple deaths by one or a few shooters, all the politicians come out.  The pundits are up in arms, it's all over the news and the talk of the day around the water cooler.

So sad, those poor people.

See, we need better gun control.

It's not guns that kill, it's people that kill people. The guns are not the problem.

THOSE people, THEY are the problem.

How was it that nobody knew?


Everyone has something to say, but there is not enough ACTION.


Something has to be done, unfortunately, nothing will be done.  It will happen again and again and again.  It will keep happening until the world becomes a nicer place, until we become more connected as human beings.


How do we stop the gun violence

I know that that sentence probably sounds a bit namby pamby.   Maybe I even sound like I am wearing rose colored glasses.  Of course I know that there are lots of reasons for the violence-drugs, mental illness, gangs, etc.  


I am here to tell you that you can make a difference.  How can I make a difference?  I don't know those people!


You MAY know those people, or at least maybe you come into contact with them.  They could be the cashier at your grocery store, your kid's friend, the guy serving you at starbucks or that fast food restaurant.  They could be your loan officer or title agent, realtor friend-streched out, stressed out, over-worked, underpaid, living on the edge, not able to support their family.  Maybe it's the guy with a sick parent, sick child or maybe they are sick themselves.  Maybe that woman you cut off in the parking lot is holding down two minimum wage jobs while trying to take care of her family.  Maybe that family at the grocery store at 11 PM on a school night...ask if there is something they need instead of judging them for being out so late.  You could change the future for those kids.


Many times the violence is turned on themselves, or loved ones.  Sometimes it is turned on a specific bully or maybe a preceived slight sent someone over the edge.  And sometimes the violence is planned, and calculated and carried out in a methodical, sick way, targeting a group of innocents.  We have seen that more times than I want to acknowledge.



Start by being more kind.  Start by getting off your cell phone and actually talking to the person in front of you.  Start by spending time with your kids-dinner, family game night. Start by putting positive energy out in the world.




Stop adding to the hate by NOT writing that scathing comment on someone's facebook post or other social media. Stop sharing the hate speech.  Stop giving someone the finger who cut you off in traffic.  Stop acting like we are so different and start acting like we are so alike.


Whatever you do START.  You can help to end gun violence, bullying, hate.  It's not about the guns, it is about human connection.  



Warm Regards,

Bridget McGee  Maryland Mortgage Mama  NMLS# 196068  SWBC Mortgage.   410-960-2061 EHO or


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Comment balloon 6 commentsBridget "Mortgage Mama" McGee • October 04 2015 08:17PM


I like your take on this.  We have come to live in a very disconnected world.  Heck, I go to lunch with friends buried in their phones.  Strangers speaking to me?  Ha!  I very much like to see the surprised smile on people's faces when I interact personally with them.  It makes me feel good, and them too.

Posted by Chris Ann Cleland, Associate Broker, Bristow, VA (Long and Foster REALTORS®, Gainesville, VA) over 4 years ago

Oh Bridget, if only everyone could read and really appreciate your message here!

Posted by Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400, Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome ( HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400) over 4 years ago

Chris Ann,  I love that you are connecting!  Thanks for connecting with me! :)

Margaret, Thank you for your kind words.  You are the queen of connecting!


Posted by Bridget "Mortgage Mama" McGee, Maryland Mortgage Mama NMLS#196068 (SWBC Mortgage 410-960-2061) over 4 years ago

I have been shooting since my age was measured in single digits. I got into my share of fights in my younger years but I never thought of ending a dispute with a gun. If I fought and lost I got over it and moved on. Your final statement sums it up. By not connecting and allowing our culture to devalue life and honor criminal behavior we have created this monster. It never ceases to amaze me that we can teach that what we visualize we become and then allow music and video games to teach our youth that there is not only no consequence to killing but honor. I strive to follow John Maxwell's philosophy and add value to everyone I meet. What would happen if we could all do that and teach our children to do the same?

Posted by Larry Riggs, GRI, SRS Your Frederick County Specialist (Century 21 Redwood) over 4 years ago

Larry Riggs Thank you for this.  I love your point of view.  The world would be a much better place...choose peace!

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